She’s just not that into you

So your first date went swimmingly and she seems like the whole package. But then suddenly she’s not calling you back. Something isn’t sitting right, you haven’t heard from her in a while, you find yourself feeling less and less confident about things between you both. In short; It’s not going to plan.
How can you tell if you’re smitten and she ain’t? Well it’s a tough one, but we’ll try to help you work it out.

Danger Signs

She hasn’t called or text you and it’s been more than days.

She seemed a little vacant when you suggested “doing this again some time.”

Her messages are few and far between and she uses phone-based excuses like ‘Sorry I lost my phone’ or ‘My phone ran out of battery’ or ‘I couldn’t find my charger.”

You never received the obligatory ‘I had fun tonight’ text after your first date.

She avoids meeting up when you do suggest it and says she’s busy despite the fact you know she binge watches her favourite shows at least once a week.

If she fits any of the above, sorry reader but it sounds like she’s just not that into you. Don’t panic though, think about these things logically. Chances are you only had a handful of dates and, sure it sucks because you really liked her and thought you guys had a spark, but realistically the book of memories between you both can hardly make a novel. Listen to some empowering songs, grab your phone, get on the GaydarGirls app and search for your next date.

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