Tips for coming out to your parents
It’s never easy but we all have to go through it. Here’s what we’ve learnt
How do I know if my crush is gay?
One of the biggest dilemmas in the lesbian world is that girls are so much flirtier than guys. How are…
Agony Aimee: I fancy my housemate
Dear Aunty GG, Help. I’ve just started my first term at university and I can feel myself developing a crush…
Agony Anne: I Fancy The Wrong Girl
“I know there’s something there, I want to act on it, but I’d lose my job”
The Unreplied-to Message
I’m terrible at starting conversations online. Especially when I fancy someone. My graveyard of failed opening gambits splits into the following three categories:…
Valentines Day Stories – The Best and Worst
I have a love/hate thing with Valentines Day. I think a lot of people do, usually there’s a correlation between…
Lesbians: How To Go Out With Boys
TIPS FOR LESBIANS ON HOW TO GO OUT WITH BOYS I have always been a lesbian. I have never had…
A Girls’ Guide to First Dates
When I first got with My Love, I wasn’t very good at dating…
Yas and Liz Met on GaydarGirls
Yas and Liz met on GaydarGirls…
Yas had been looking at my profile for months before she messaged me.
My profile was quite generic though, but when I updated it and made it quite specific, she noticed that she basically ticked every box and mustered up the courage to send me a beautiful, well-written and very original message.
I still have it backed up in several places
Friends With Benefits?
I’m not saying this is for everyone.
If you see sex and love as the same thing, then don’t even bother.
And especially if you have that fairy-tale-Disney attitude of:
“If we just have sex now it might blossom into a beautiful marriage…”
How Can You Be Sure She’s ‘The One’?
You need to be sure.
Like sure, sure not “she’s alright” sure.
So we’ve devised a fool proof way of knowing that you’ve found The One.
(Legally we’re obliged to let you know that it’s not fool proof and just because you don’t satisfy all of the below, there’s no need to call off the wedding and vice versa…)
Should You Date Someone You Work With?
You’ve spotted someone you fancy at work – this is brilliant; you can practically get paid to flirt with her. Once she inevitably decides that she loves you back, your life will be so much easier; you can go to work in one car, lunch together and have sneaky supply cupboard sessions when nobody’s looking…
Wedding Planning Tips
I’ve been lucky enough to plan some amazing same sex weddings and I can honestly say (this is directed at those who deem them ‘not real weddings’) that they are very real.
After all, a wedding is about two people who are committing to love each other forever, against all odds and even alongside the old myth looming around their heads which shall not be named (read: lesbian bed death). It’s time to keep on demonstrating our love for each other until society catches up, and who wants to wait around for that to happen anyway…?
How To Have The ‘Girlfriend’ Conversation…
Picture the scene; you’ve met someone great..
Even the thought of her makes you giddy, you get butterflies when she texts and you don’t mind her seeing you first thing in a morning- in fact you actively want to wake up with her- but it’s not “official” yet…
Thank you GaydarGirls…
I wasn’t planning to fall in love. I wasn’t even looking for a friend, NO.
I was just talking with some girls from the website, was REALY bored with my life, which was, believe it or not, even more depressing than it sounds.
But then… that changed!
So What Exactly Is Gay Marriage?
Same sex marriages are introduced in England and Wales from 29 March 2014, but gay couples will also still be able to opt to have a Civil Partnership.
There’s been a lot of media coverage on the Same Sex marriage bill, but it’d be useful, we think, to outline exactly what it all means…
Do Lesbian Hook-Ups Exist?
The Loch Ness monster, Big Foot and Lezzy-One-Night-Stands; not too tricky to spot the link there, they’re all the stuff of legend.
Yeah, we’ve all got that one mate who claims they have a friend whose sister knows someone that’s seen one…
But is it really possible…?
What Does She Want?
I started dating this girl last year while I was still mixed up with my ex…
While I was with the new girl I cheated a little bit with my ex, and she found out.
Desperate Makeover
I am 24 and came out two years ago and I still look like a frumpy straight girl.
I was uncomfortable being straight and didn’t want to stand out, but now I do want to look like a queer…