My situation is that I am in my late forties, a lifelong lesbian, and recently ended the relationship with my partner of nearly fifteen years.
We are doing well, my former partner and I, in our strategies for dealing with people inquiring and such, but I find that I am exhausted more often than not and just want a fresh start.
I met a great girl and we became girlfriends almost three months ago.
We do all sorts of stuff together and she’s loads of fun.
The past number of dates I’ve been on were absolute disasters.
I met these women at different social events and thought they seemed nice.
I’ve been with my partner for about eight years now – since we were very young – and we still get on well.
We have both grown up and ‘made it’ together as a couple.
We live together and were able to buy our home, plus we own a small business together, too. These parts all work.
My partner is kind and funny and loving and she would do anything for me.
In all of these ways, I am one of the lucky ones.
Oh my God, my ex is everywhere! I definitely need your help.
My ex and I were together for six months and it’s been two months since the break-up.
For the first month I mostly sat around the house and ate ice cream with the telly on feeling sorry for myself.
I am a queer woman and I live with two other queer women.
We are our own family unit and we usually attend things together.
The title says it all – my girlfriend wants anal sex!
I have always thought of myself as a non boring sexual person, but I feel hesitant about this.
We’ve done it all kinds of other ways and positions, but I am not experienced at anal sex, and she is.
She assures me that I don’t have anything to worry about, that I should just stick it in and so forth and that she will show me the rest. I have told her not yet, but I’m putting her off and she knows it…
I have a kind of etiquette question that I definitely cannot ask my Mum!
I’m just out of a relationship that lasted three years, and I’m dying for this girl.
My ex isn’t living with me anymore, but still hasn’t quite moved all of her stuff out, and I managed to meet someone that I want to have, immediately.
I’m getting mixed messages everywhere…
Recently, after going on several first dates, I accepted a number of dates from a woman who I actually fancy, and now things are confusing.