First dates do’s and don’ts
Don’t reveal everything in the first 30 minutes, she doesn’t need to know how many straight girls you’ve seduced
Starting Over…
My situation is that I am in my late forties, a lifelong lesbian, and recently ended the relationship with my partner of nearly fifteen years.
We are doing well, my former partner and I, in our strategies for dealing with people inquiring and such, but I find that I am exhausted more often than not and just want a fresh start.
I am starting to realize that the ending of this relationship actually feels a bit like needing to start over, not just about my partner but life on the whole…
How Can You Be Sure She’s ‘The One’?
You need to be sure.
Like sure, sure not “she’s alright” sure.
So we’ve devised a fool proof way of knowing that you’ve found The One.
(Legally we’re obliged to let you know that it’s not fool proof and just because you don’t satisfy all of the below, there’s no need to call off the wedding and vice versa…)
Attracted To Men?
“I am a 19 year old lesbian and I have been a lesbian throughout my life.
When I was young I tried being a boy but it just didn’t compute to me, so I started to chase after girls.
I’ve been comfortable with my sexuality, up until two weeks ago…”
She Lied To Me…
I thought I snagged a total babe, but then I snagged her in a lie!
We’ve started only two months ago, and this was our first hair raising argument – most frustrating!
Any worthy exceptions to the ‘no lying’ rule?
10 Ways NOT To Come Out
I came out, kicking and screaming, in the 1980s and early 1990s … in some pretty poor ways.
Here are my top ten favourite ways well worth avoiding…
Help: I Have Feelings For Another Girl…
I hope you can help.
I have a gf who I love dearly but I also have a crush on this girl who works at the local supermarket down the road from me. I have tried to deny the feelings that I have for this girl but its driving me bats.
I really don’t know what to do any more.
I’m Finding It Hard To Orgasm…
I am 38. The last time myself and partner had sex I found it very hard to orgasm.
Since then we haven’t had sex in a long time until last night and the same thing happened.
We have been together 13 years and very much want each other emotionally and sexually, she turns me on and vice versa. I just don’t know what to do any more…
My Girlfriend Wants Anal Sex…
The title says it all – my girlfriend wants anal sex!
I have always thought of myself as a non boring sexual person, but I feel hesitant about this.
We’ve done it all kinds of other ways and positions, but I am not experienced at anal sex, and she is.
She assures me that I don’t have anything to worry about, that I should just stick it in and so forth and that she will show me the rest. I have told her not yet, but I’m putting her off and she knows it…
How Long Do I Have To Wait?
I have a kind of etiquette question that I definitely cannot ask my Mum!
I’m just out of a relationship that lasted three years, and I’m dying for this girl.
My ex isn’t living with me anymore, but still hasn’t quite moved all of her stuff out, and I managed to meet someone that I want to have, immediately.
I’m Getting Mixed Messages…
I’m getting mixed messages everywhere…
Recently, after going on several first dates, I accepted a number of dates from a woman who I actually fancy, and now things are confusing.
She pursued me and says all sorts of promising things, but then really backs off between dates and the messages don’t match!
My Ex Is A Stalker!
Dear Auntie W,
I feel creeped out by my ex. We dated for only a short while but she won’t let go.
I thought we’d be mates, but then she gave me reason to not want to and I thought case closed. I told her I didn’t want to talk to her anymore, and haven’t…
I Think My Wife is Attracted To Other Women…
I’m married to a lovely woman…
We’re mid thirties, we’ve got a nice home, a wonderful daughter and we’re very comfortable. However, I’m 90% sure my wife is more attracted to other women. As much as I don’t want this to be true, I just want her to be happy.
Advice please?
