

First Inklings I Was A Lesbian…
Despite knowing—on some level at a very young age that I was a lesbian, it took a silly amount of time for the pink penny to finally, consciously drop.
Into my university years I was writing entry after entry in my diary about how beautiful my latest girl-crush’s eyes were … yet expressing in the very next paragraphs my bewilderment as to why I never felt excited when a boy touched me.
So, how could I know I was gay when I didn’t know?

Confessions Of A Teenage Stalker…
The idea that remained with me is that my teacher, ‘Miss Williams’ and I were lovers in our past lives, that I had had a sudden death and so had carried the intensity of our love, grief from the rift, and recognition of my lover, into my current life. Miss Williams, on the other hand, had lived for a long time after my death, she had overcome the love, her grief had subsided, and she no longer recognised me in this life.
As a disclaimer, I should like to emphasise that the passing of the years has in every way corrected the behaviour I am about to describe. And yet, I confess, I was once this person…

You can’t stop love people!
This may look like any ordinary, but gorgeous, wedding video, except for the fact that it was filmed across the road from The Westboro Baptist Church. And we all know what they’re famous for…
Watch it, it’s beautiful…

Reasons Not To Keep A Diary
What was to become a life-long obsession with diary-writing began like this …
Thursday 9th October 1986
“Not in an unpleasant way.”
I felt compelled to jot down the above snippet of homophobia made by one of my teachers when I was seventeen.
I made the note in my school homework diary, using Greek letters (I had studied Greek at ‘O’ level). The teacher had made a remark about another teacher which was ambiguous and could have meant that the second teacher was gay…

Are you an Egg, a Carrot or a Coffee Bean?
A grandmother gives advice to her granddaughter who has just been cheated on

LGBT History Month Series:
February is LGBT History Month and we, at GaydarGirls, would like to pay tribute to some of the women who…

How Can You Be Sure She’s ‘The One’?
You need to be sure.
Like sure, sure not “she’s alright” sure.
So we’ve devised a fool proof way of knowing that you’ve found The One.
(Legally we’re obliged to let you know that it’s not fool proof and just because you don’t satisfy all of the below, there’s no need to call off the wedding and vice versa…)

Thank you GaydarGirls…
I wasn’t planning to fall in love. I wasn’t even looking for a friend, NO.
I was just talking with some girls from the website, was REALY bored with my life, which was, believe it or not, even more depressing than it sounds.
But then… that changed!

I Fell In Love With The Girl From Work
I met my future wife, at work.
I like to pretend that I trained her but in fact I was paired with a chubby, spotty, know-it-all boy while my friend got to buddy with the fitty who is now set to be my wife…

Jessie J Responds to Critics About Bisexuality
Jessie J responds to the millions of tweets, comments and articles written about her sexuality.
This first appeared on her twitter, we have only included spacing to make it easier to read.
Warning: This tweet is defo over 120 characters….

I Avoided Sex…
I didn’t know I was avoiding having sex for the first ten years or so of my adult life.
I just knew I wasn’t getting any, and I didn’t understand why…

We’re Not Time-Wasters, We’re Just Bisexual!
I occupy a strange place within the LGBT community. I’m technically a gold star, but I identify as bi.
When I first came out to my parents 4 years ago, my mum’s first reaction was:
‘Aww Annie… what’s bi?’

10 Ways NOT To Come Out
I came out, kicking and screaming, in the 1980s and early 1990s … in some pretty poor ways.
Here are my top ten favourite ways well worth avoiding…

Bec & Sebastian – The Voice Australia
Bec and Sebastian came to our attention with their acoustic rendition of Jessie J’s hit song ‘Price Tag’.
Apart from being ridiculously talented, they’re also super cool – so cool that Ricky Martin picked them to be in his group on The Voice Australia.

More Tea With Billie Myers…
The second part of our interview with Billie Myers, we talk love, dating, bisexualphobia and more…

Tea and Sympathy With Billie Myers
Billie Myers has quite the voice and quite the story…
It was just another day in LA for British native, Billie Myers; trying to jump start a diet, she was lying on a colonic table, when her mobile phone rang. She was informed that Universal Records had dropped her.
This was just the start of a few turbulent years that saw Billie diagnosed with depression.
But she’s back with a new album, a new label and being unapologetically Billie…

10 Things You Can Do If You Want To Do Drag
Recently deciding I wanted to dress in drag, or as a man, I found myself doing a bit of research.
This mainly consisted of perusing the Internet whilst eating too many almonds, and talking to experienced Drag Kings about what it is that they do and how they do it.
I’ve put together a list of pointers and resources for others who might be in the position I was in some time ago.

DJ Becky Perry
We’re in a Brighton Pride mood and we’re chatting to some of the girls who will be making your weekend memorable.
One of those ladies is DJ Becky Perry, we pick her brain about Brighton Pride and more…

DJ Dulcie Danger
You would have seen our Brighton Pride take over on the blog home page and if you haven’t, what on earth are you waiting for?
And because we’re so excited to be a part of it, we rounded up a series of the girls providing the tunes.
Meet Dulcie Danger, who probably has the coolest name around.

Lauren Bedford Russell Part 2
The second half of our chat with Lauren Bedford Russell, we talk business, activism about her MS diagnosis and how you can get involved…