Should You Date Someone You Work With?
You’ve spotted someone you fancy at work – this is brilliant; you can practically get paid to flirt with her. Once she inevitably decides that she loves you back, your life will be so much easier; you can go to work in one car, lunch together and have sneaky supply cupboard sessions when nobody’s looking…
How To Have The ‘Girlfriend’ Conversation…
Picture the scene; you’ve met someone great..
Even the thought of her makes you giddy, you get butterflies when she texts and you don’t mind her seeing you first thing in a morning- in fact you actively want to wake up with her- but it’s not “official” yet…
So What Exactly Is Gay Marriage?
Same sex marriages are introduced in England and Wales from 29 March 2014, but gay couples will also still be able to opt to have a Civil Partnership.
There’s been a lot of media coverage on the Same Sex marriage bill, but it’d be useful, we think, to outline exactly what it all means…
Do Lesbian Hook-Ups Exist?
The Loch Ness monster, Big Foot and Lezzy-One-Night-Stands; not too tricky to spot the link there, they’re all the stuff of legend.
Yeah, we’ve all got that one mate who claims they have a friend whose sister knows someone that’s seen one…
But is it really possible…?
What Does She Want?
I started dating this girl last year while I was still mixed up with my ex…
While I was with the new girl I cheated a little bit with my ex, and she found out.
Desperate Makeover
I am 24 and came out two years ago and I still look like a frumpy straight girl.
I was uncomfortable being straight and didn’t want to stand out, but now I do want to look like a queer…
Attracted To Men?
“I am a 19 year old lesbian and I have been a lesbian throughout my life.
When I was young I tried being a boy but it just didn’t compute to me, so I started to chase after girls.
I’ve been comfortable with my sexuality, up until two weeks ago…”
She Lied To Me…
I thought I snagged a total babe, but then I snagged her in a lie!
We’ve started only two months ago, and this was our first hair raising argument – most frustrating!
Any worthy exceptions to the ‘no lying’ rule?
10 Ways NOT To Come Out
I came out, kicking and screaming, in the 1980s and early 1990s … in some pretty poor ways.
Here are my top ten favourite ways well worth avoiding…
My Girlfriend Is Afraid Of Dildos
I met a great girl and we became girlfriends almost three months ago.
We do all sorts of stuff together and she’s loads of fun.
We’re both in our late twenties and tend to like the same music, people and fashion.
The only trouble is that my girlfriend is afraid of dildos…!
Dating Misery
The past number of dates I’ve been on were absolute disasters.
I met these women at different social events and thought they seemed nice.
But one woman spent the whole night telling me all about her ex girlfriend, one woman kept checking her mobile all night and one woman didn’t ask me a single question all evening!
Coming Out During Interviews
I’m a recent college graduate and now job hunting. I’m writing because I’m not sure whether I should be coming out during job interviews, or not.
I don’t know if it will hurt or help my credentials if I’m out during the process and am also uncertain that the interviewers will gather that I’m a lesbian if I don’t say anything at all…
Sex Questions?
I’ve got a sex question: I love sex, but I just don’t like being the one doing the fucking.
Over the years this has been sometimes ok and sometimes vaguely not ok between myself and my lovers, but I have tried to keep them happy in a variety of other ways, sexually and domestically.
However, lately this has been a real struggle…
Better Sex Life?
I’ve been with my partner for about eight years now – since we were very young – and we still get on well.
We have both grown up and ‘made it’ together as a couple.
We live together and were able to buy our home, plus we own a small business together, too. These parts all work.
My partner is kind and funny and loving and she would do anything for me.
In all of these ways, I am one of the lucky ones.
But we did get together when we were very young and the sex has never been the best for me…
The Ex Problem…
Oh my God, my ex is everywhere! I definitely need your help.
My ex and I were together for six months and it’s been two months since the break-up.
For the first month I mostly sat around the house and ate ice cream with the telly on feeling sorry for myself.
Now all my friends have been urging me to go out with them, and, finally, I am.
And my ex is positively everywhere!
Party Etiquette For Lesbians…
I am a queer woman and I live with two other queer women.
We are our own family unit and we usually attend things together.
But here is the problem. Lately, things have gotten awkward.
One of our housemates has done a lot of cutting relationship strings recently and sometimes in a not so graceful way…
I’m In Love With A Straight Girl…
I am forty-five years old and I’ve never fallen in love with a straight woman – until now.
She is older than me and single.
I feel sick to my stomach about it – I think she’s feeling it too…
Help: I Have Feelings For Another Girl…
I hope you can help.
I have a gf who I love dearly but I also have a crush on this girl who works at the local supermarket down the road from me. I have tried to deny the feelings that I have for this girl but its driving me bats.
I really don’t know what to do any more.
I’m Finding It Hard To Orgasm…
I am 38. The last time myself and partner had sex I found it very hard to orgasm.
Since then we haven’t had sex in a long time until last night and the same thing happened.
We have been together 13 years and very much want each other emotionally and sexually, she turns me on and vice versa. I just don’t know what to do any more…
My Girlfriend Wants Anal Sex…
The title says it all – my girlfriend wants anal sex!
I have always thought of myself as a non boring sexual person, but I feel hesitant about this.
We’ve done it all kinds of other ways and positions, but I am not experienced at anal sex, and she is.
She assures me that I don’t have anything to worry about, that I should just stick it in and so forth and that she will show me the rest. I have told her not yet, but I’m putting her off and she knows it…