I met a great girl and we became girlfriends almost three months ago.
We do all sorts of stuff together and she’s loads of fun.
We’re both in our late twenties and tend to like the same music, people and fashion.
The only trouble is that my girlfriend is afraid of dildos…!
Christmas is always an uber busy time of year at Sh! and no wonder ~ Sex toys make fabulous presents to both give AND receive.
Only Valentines Day surpasses Christmas when it comes to sexy gift giving amongst the gay girl sorority and why not?
Who wouldn’t love to find a dreamy new dildo or exciting new vibrator in their stocking to fire up Christmas?
I’ve been with my partner for about eight years now – since we were very young – and we still get on well.
We have both grown up and ‘made it’ together as a couple.
We live together and were able to buy our home, plus we own a small business together, too. These parts all work.
My partner is kind and funny and loving and she would do anything for me.
In all of these ways, I am one of the lucky ones.
But we did get together when we were very young and the sex has never been the best for me…
The title says it all – my girlfriend wants anal sex!
I have always thought of myself as a non boring sexual person, but I feel hesitant about this.
We’ve done it all kinds of other ways and positions, but I am not experienced at anal sex, and she is.
She assures me that I don’t have anything to worry about, that I should just stick it in and so forth and that she will show me the rest. I have told her not yet, but I’m putting her off and she knows it…
Let’s get this straight…
Sex toys are not necessities, replacements, signs of a crappy sex life or lack of fulfilment.
They are simply sexy accessories; ‘adult toys’ in the purest sense; playthings that provide amusement
But just like sex itself, sex toys can stir up insecurities which is a tricky emotion to predict.
How do you negotiate the pitfalls, avoid hurt feelings or sore egos and do everything possible to ensure sex toy overtures are greeted with baited breath and open legs!?
I was once asked in an interview what are the best toys for lesbians…?
I pointed to my hand, mouth and temple…
Were you to find yourself on a desert island with a willing Woman-Friday, nimble fingers, a loving tongue and creative brain would keep you satisfied for a long time!
But at some point you may find yourself whittling dildos out of driftwood… Please don’t.
Here’s some tips of top toys for lesbians…