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    Starting Over…

    My situation is that I am in my late forties, a lifelong lesbian, and recently ended the relationship with my partner of nearly fifteen years.

    We are doing well, my former partner and I, in our strategies for dealing with people inquiring and such, but I find that I am exhausted more often than not and just want a fresh start.

    I am starting to realize that the ending of this relationship actually feels a bit like needing to start over, not just about my partner but life on the whole…

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    She Lied To Me…

    I thought I snagged a total babe, but then I snagged her in a lie!
    We’ve started only two months ago, and this was our first hair raising argument – most frustrating!

    Any worthy exceptions to the ‘no lying’ rule?

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    Sex Questions?

    I’ve got a sex question: I love sex, but I just don’t like being the one doing the fucking.

    Over the years this has been sometimes ok and sometimes vaguely not ok between myself and my lovers, but I have tried to keep them happy in a variety of other ways, sexually and domestically.

    However, lately this has been a real struggle…

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    Party Etiquette For Lesbians…

    I am a queer woman and I live with two other queer women.
    We are our own family unit and we usually attend things together.

    But here is the problem. Lately, things have gotten awkward.
    One of our housemates has done a lot of cutting relationship strings recently and sometimes in a not so graceful way…

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    Help: I Have Feelings For Another Girl…

    I hope you can help.

    I have a gf who I love dearly but I also have a crush on this girl who works at the local supermarket down the road from me. I have tried to deny the feelings that I have for this girl but its driving me bats.

    I really don’t know what to do any more.

    Please help…

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    I’m Finding It Hard To Orgasm…

    I am 38. The last time myself and partner had sex I found it very hard to orgasm.
    Since then we haven’t had sex in a long time until last night and the same thing happened.

    We have been together 13 years and very much want each other emotionally and sexually, she turns me on and vice versa. I just don’t know what to do any more…

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    How Long Do I Have To Wait?

    I have a kind of etiquette question that I definitely cannot ask my Mum!
    I’m just out of a relationship that lasted three years, and I’m dying for this girl.

    My ex isn’t living with me anymore, but still hasn’t quite moved all of her stuff out, and I managed to meet someone that I want to have, immediately.

    How long do I wait?

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    My Wife Looks Elsewhere… Why?

    My wife and I have been together for 4 years, we got married over a year ago…
    I look after myself and always make the effort to look good for her.
    This all seems to be in waste though as since we have been together she has cheated on me 4 times (that I know about) with one of those being just the end of last year.
    Advice please?

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