Is Age Just A Number?

I’ve started seeing a woman who is ten years old than me.
I am 27 and she is 37 and we met at a work function, so we have lots in common, but a few of my mates have commented at the age difference, and seem sceptical.

I’m Attracted To My Best Friend

I need your help. I am so attracted to my best friend of 20 years. I think she is a goddess I tell her all the time. She is smart, witty, educated and has an ass like JLo. We have “been” together once.

But I want it again.

I can’t stop thinking about it. She is so sexy. I have been with another woman besides her but she by far was the best – it’s more than just the “sex.”

My Girlfriend Is Afraid Of Dildos

I met a great girl and we became girlfriends almost three months ago.
We do all sorts of stuff together and she’s loads of fun.

We’re both in our late twenties and tend to like the same music, people and fashion.
The only trouble is that my girlfriend is afraid of dildos…!

Dating Misery

The past number of dates I’ve been on were absolute disasters.
I met these women at different social events and thought they seemed nice.

But one woman spent the whole night telling me all about her ex girlfriend, one woman kept checking her mobile all night and one woman didn’t ask me a single question all evening!

Coming Out During Interviews

I’m a recent college graduate and now job hunting. I’m writing because I’m not sure whether I should be coming out during job interviews, or not.

I don’t know if it will hurt or help my credentials if I’m out during the process and am also uncertain that the interviewers will gather that I’m a lesbian if I don’t say anything at all…

Better Sex Life?

I’ve been with my partner for about eight years now – since we were very young – and we still get on well.

We have both grown up and ‘made it’ together as a couple.
We live together and were able to buy our home, plus we own a small business together, too. These parts all work.

My partner is kind and funny and loving and she would do anything for me.
In all of these ways, I am one of the lucky ones.

But we did get together when we were very young and the sex has never been the best for me…

The Ex Problem…

Oh my God, my ex is everywhere! I definitely need your help.

My ex and I were together for six months and it’s been two months since the break-up.
For the first month I mostly sat around the house and ate ice cream with the telly on feeling sorry for myself.

Now all my friends have been urging me to go out with them, and, finally, I am.
And my ex is positively everywhere!

I’m In Love With A Straight Girl…

I am forty-five years old and I’ve never fallen in love with a straight woman – until now. 
She is older than me and single.
I feel sick to my stomach about it – I think she’s feeling it too…

My Girlfriend Wants Anal Sex…

The title says it all – my girlfriend wants anal sex!

I have always thought of myself as a non boring sexual person, but I feel hesitant about this.
We’ve done it all kinds of other ways and positions, but I am not experienced at anal sex, and she is.

She assures me that I don’t have anything to worry about, that I should just stick it in and so forth and that she will show me the rest. I have told her not yet, but I’m putting her off and she knows it…

I’m Getting Mixed Messages…

I’m getting mixed messages everywhere…
Recently, after going on several first dates, I accepted a number of dates from a woman who I actually fancy, and now things are confusing.

She pursued me and says all sorts of promising things, but then really backs off between dates and the messages don’t match!

My Ex Is A Stalker!

Dear Auntie W,
I feel creeped out by my ex. We dated for only a short while but she won’t let go.

I thought we’d be mates, but then she gave me reason to not want to and I thought case closed. I told her I didn’t want to talk to her anymore, and haven’t…

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We can’t tell you how many emails we get asking for advice from dating to love making – kid you not.
And we’d love to answer each one personally but frankly we can be a little bit hopeless in some departments – hey, we’re just honest.

So we’ve enlisted the help of our expert ladies to give you the best advice there is available without thousands of hours of expensive therapy.
But here’s the catch, one of them  is nicer than the other…