How can I tell if she’s into me?
The age-old conundrum – how to figure out if she likes you back
Friends with Benefits
Friends with Benefits. We’ve all seen the film right? Justin Timberlake and Mila Kunis *swoon*. If you haven’t seen it,…
First dates do’s and don’ts
Don’t reveal everything in the first 30 minutes, she doesn’t need to know how many straight girls you’ve seduced
Starting Over…
My situation is that I am in my late forties, a lifelong lesbian, and recently ended the relationship with my partner of nearly fifteen years.
We are doing well, my former partner and I, in our strategies for dealing with people inquiring and such, but I find that I am exhausted more often than not and just want a fresh start.
I am starting to realize that the ending of this relationship actually feels a bit like needing to start over, not just about my partner but life on the whole…
Things lesbians are tired of hearing
Such as “But you don’t look like a lesbian?” and other classics…
The Unreplied-to Message
I’m terrible at starting conversations online. Especially when I fancy someone. My graveyard of failed opening gambits splits into the following three categories:…
Lesbians: How To Go Out With Boys
TIPS FOR LESBIANS ON HOW TO GO OUT WITH BOYS I have always been a lesbian. I have never had…
A Girls’ Guide to First Dates
When I first got with My Love, I wasn’t very good at dating…
How To Have The ‘Girlfriend’ Conversation…
Picture the scene; you’ve met someone great..
Even the thought of her makes you giddy, you get butterflies when she texts and you don’t mind her seeing you first thing in a morning- in fact you actively want to wake up with her- but it’s not “official” yet…
What Does She Want?
I started dating this girl last year while I was still mixed up with my ex…
While I was with the new girl I cheated a little bit with my ex, and she found out.
Dating Misery
The past number of dates I’ve been on were absolute disasters.
I met these women at different social events and thought they seemed nice.
But one woman spent the whole night telling me all about her ex girlfriend, one woman kept checking her mobile all night and one woman didn’t ask me a single question all evening!
10 Reasons Why You’re Still Single
You think you’re a good egg, so you can’t possibly understand why you’re still single.
Here’s 10 reasons why you could potentially be single…
Exit Strategies
Your exits are located here, here and here…
But if you use them, she will call you a douchebag and all of her friends will unfollow you on Twitter.
Thus is the unwritten rule of, “What happens when you dump your girlfriend.”
There are, however, some ways to soften the blow…
First Dates? We’ve Got You Covered…
Some more tips from Effi Mai on how to succeed on first dates. This one you HAVE to read… READ ME.
How To Pull Even More Girls. Kinda.
It’s a new year and if you’ve included ‘find a lover’ in your 2013 resolutions then Effi Mai is your saviour. She’s back with even MORE tips on how to pull girls.
Thinking of drinking before pulling? A bad idea… here’s why.
Your Breakup Survival Guide…
Breakups are when you feel like crying all the tears out of your body and feel so angry you could decapitate your teddy bear. You’ll do things that, in a sane mind, you wouldn’t normally do like… READ MORE
How To Pull Girls. Well, kinda…
Pulling a girl involves drinking a vast amount of tequila, staring at the girl I’ve probably fancied for well over three months and then using my much more attractive best friend as bait… READ MORE
Prepare yourself for that first date…
Dates are filled with trepidation and fear, and first dates are a world of pain.
If you’re determined to go through you need to be prepared… READ MORE
