Should You Date Someone You Work With?
You’ve spotted someone you fancy at work – this is brilliant; you can practically get paid to flirt with her. Once she inevitably decides that she loves you back, your life will be so much easier; you can go to work in one car, lunch together and have sneaky supply cupboard sessions when nobody’s looking…
Wedding Planning Tips
I’ve been lucky enough to plan some amazing same sex weddings and I can honestly say (this is directed at those who deem them ‘not real weddings’) that they are very real.
After all, a wedding is about two people who are committing to love each other forever, against all odds and even alongside the old myth looming around their heads which shall not be named (read: lesbian bed death). It’s time to keep on demonstrating our love for each other until society catches up, and who wants to wait around for that to happen anyway…?
How To Have The ‘Girlfriend’ Conversation…
Picture the scene; you’ve met someone great..
Even the thought of her makes you giddy, you get butterflies when she texts and you don’t mind her seeing you first thing in a morning- in fact you actively want to wake up with her- but it’s not “official” yet…
Thank you GaydarGirls…
I wasn’t planning to fall in love. I wasn’t even looking for a friend, NO.
I was just talking with some girls from the website, was REALY bored with my life, which was, believe it or not, even more depressing than it sounds.
But then… that changed!
I Fell In Love With The Girl From Work
I met my future wife, at work.
I like to pretend that I trained her but in fact I was paired with a chubby, spotty, know-it-all boy while my friend got to buddy with the fitty who is now set to be my wife…
Jessie J Responds to Critics About Bisexuality
Jessie J responds to the millions of tweets, comments and articles written about her sexuality.
This first appeared on her twitter, we have only included spacing to make it easier to read.
Warning: This tweet is defo over 120 characters….
Dykon: Laurel Holloman
She was one half of the famous L Word couple, Tibette or Betinna (whichever way you look at it) but she’s a woman of many talents – making a name for herself as an abstract painter!
She’s this week’s Dykon…
So What Exactly Is Gay Marriage?
Same sex marriages are introduced in England and Wales from 29 March 2014, but gay couples will also still be able to opt to have a Civil Partnership.
There’s been a lot of media coverage on the Same Sex marriage bill, but it’d be useful, we think, to outline exactly what it all means…
Do Lesbian Hook-Ups Exist?
The Loch Ness monster, Big Foot and Lezzy-One-Night-Stands; not too tricky to spot the link there, they’re all the stuff of legend.
Yeah, we’ve all got that one mate who claims they have a friend whose sister knows someone that’s seen one…
But is it really possible…?
What Does She Want?
I started dating this girl last year while I was still mixed up with my ex…
While I was with the new girl I cheated a little bit with my ex, and she found out.
Desperate Makeover
I am 24 and came out two years ago and I still look like a frumpy straight girl.
I was uncomfortable being straight and didn’t want to stand out, but now I do want to look like a queer…
I Avoided Sex…
I didn’t know I was avoiding having sex for the first ten years or so of my adult life.
I just knew I wasn’t getting any, and I didn’t understand why…
10 Lessons I Learned When I Became Bulimic
Twenty-two years ago, at the age of twenty, I managed to make myself bulimic. I would consume nothing but water…
Attracted To Men?
“I am a 19 year old lesbian and I have been a lesbian throughout my life.
When I was young I tried being a boy but it just didn’t compute to me, so I started to chase after girls.
I’ve been comfortable with my sexuality, up until two weeks ago…”
We’re Not Time-Wasters, We’re Just Bisexual!
I occupy a strange place within the LGBT community. I’m technically a gold star, but I identify as bi.
When I first came out to my parents 4 years ago, my mum’s first reaction was:
‘Aww Annie… what’s bi?’
Dykon: Nicole Kidman
It’s time to pay homage at the altar of dyke icons.
This week it’s time for us sistas to pay homage to tall, leggy lady Nicole Kidman…
Dykons: Whoopi Goldberg
It’s time to pay homage at the altar of dyke icons.
This week it’s time for us sistas to get our act together and give Whoopi the dykon treatment.
She Lied To Me…
I thought I snagged a total babe, but then I snagged her in a lie!
We’ve started only two months ago, and this was our first hair raising argument – most frustrating!
Any worthy exceptions to the ‘no lying’ rule?
10 Ways NOT To Come Out
I came out, kicking and screaming, in the 1980s and early 1990s … in some pretty poor ways.
Here are my top ten favourite ways well worth avoiding…
My Girlfriend Is Afraid Of Dildos
I met a great girl and we became girlfriends almost three months ago.
We do all sorts of stuff together and she’s loads of fun.
We’re both in our late twenties and tend to like the same music, people and fashion.
The only trouble is that my girlfriend is afraid of dildos…!