I Avoided Sex…
I didn’t know I was avoiding having sex for the first ten years or so of my adult life.
I just knew I wasn’t getting any, and I didn’t understand why…
Attracted To Men?
“I am a 19 year old lesbian and I have been a lesbian throughout my life.
When I was young I tried being a boy but it just didn’t compute to me, so I started to chase after girls.
I’ve been comfortable with my sexuality, up until two weeks ago…”
She Lied To Me…
I thought I snagged a total babe, but then I snagged her in a lie!
We’ve started only two months ago, and this was our first hair raising argument – most frustrating!
Any worthy exceptions to the ‘no lying’ rule?
10 Ways NOT To Come Out
I came out, kicking and screaming, in the 1980s and early 1990s … in some pretty poor ways.
Here are my top ten favourite ways well worth avoiding…
My Girlfriend Is Afraid Of Dildos
I met a great girl and we became girlfriends almost three months ago.
We do all sorts of stuff together and she’s loads of fun.
We’re both in our late twenties and tend to like the same music, people and fashion.
The only trouble is that my girlfriend is afraid of dildos…!
Dating Misery
The past number of dates I’ve been on were absolute disasters.
I met these women at different social events and thought they seemed nice.
But one woman spent the whole night telling me all about her ex girlfriend, one woman kept checking her mobile all night and one woman didn’t ask me a single question all evening!
Santa Baby, Slip A Sex Toy Under The Tree For Me…
Christmas is always an uber busy time of year at Sh! and no wonder ~ Sex toys make fabulous presents to both give AND receive.
Only Valentines Day surpasses Christmas when it comes to sexy gift giving amongst the gay girl sorority and why not?
Who wouldn’t love to find a dreamy new dildo or exciting new vibrator in their stocking to fire up Christmas?
Coming Out During Interviews
I’m a recent college graduate and now job hunting. I’m writing because I’m not sure whether I should be coming out during job interviews, or not.
I don’t know if it will hurt or help my credentials if I’m out during the process and am also uncertain that the interviewers will gather that I’m a lesbian if I don’t say anything at all…
Sex Questions?
I’ve got a sex question: I love sex, but I just don’t like being the one doing the fucking.
Over the years this has been sometimes ok and sometimes vaguely not ok between myself and my lovers, but I have tried to keep them happy in a variety of other ways, sexually and domestically.
However, lately this has been a real struggle…
Better Sex Life?
I’ve been with my partner for about eight years now – since we were very young – and we still get on well.
We have both grown up and ‘made it’ together as a couple.
We live together and were able to buy our home, plus we own a small business together, too. These parts all work.
My partner is kind and funny and loving and she would do anything for me.
In all of these ways, I am one of the lucky ones.
But we did get together when we were very young and the sex has never been the best for me…
The Ex Problem…
Oh my God, my ex is everywhere! I definitely need your help.
My ex and I were together for six months and it’s been two months since the break-up.
For the first month I mostly sat around the house and ate ice cream with the telly on feeling sorry for myself.
Now all my friends have been urging me to go out with them, and, finally, I am.
And my ex is positively everywhere!
Party Etiquette For Lesbians…
I am a queer woman and I live with two other queer women.
We are our own family unit and we usually attend things together.
But here is the problem. Lately, things have gotten awkward.
One of our housemates has done a lot of cutting relationship strings recently and sometimes in a not so graceful way…
I’m In Love With A Straight Girl…
I am forty-five years old and I’ve never fallen in love with a straight woman – until now.
She is older than me and single.
I feel sick to my stomach about it – I think she’s feeling it too…
Help: I Have Feelings For Another Girl…
I hope you can help.
I have a gf who I love dearly but I also have a crush on this girl who works at the local supermarket down the road from me. I have tried to deny the feelings that I have for this girl but its driving me bats.
I really don’t know what to do any more.
LGB+ Wedding Guide
Every time we hear of passing legislation that allows same sex couples to get married, or at least taking the steps to – it fills our hearts with joy.
So, it’s time to bring you the best wedding advice available from the experts…
Our Road To Marriage…
It’s not always the conventional way of getting with someone that has the best story; in fact it could be the worst place and time that can have the greatest effects and believe me this isn’t one of those ‘Once upon a time’ moments…
Daring To Dream; What Equal Marriage Really Means!
Gay Rights and the LGBT Community have come a long way over the last decade.
First, attitudes began to change around the late 1990’s and early noughties, and we began to feel like society was finally growing that other brain cell which assured that we were also human too…
Engagement Etiquette With Rony Tennanbaum
As more states gear up for and pass legislation that allows same sex couples to legally get married, the Wedding and Engagement jewellery etiquettes are being rewritten.
Roles that used to be “the norm” (man meets woman, man buys diamond ring, woman is proposed to, woman wears diamond till wedding), are now being re-looked at as traditions evolve.
With the addition of “girl meets girl” and “boy meets boy”, new questions about each one’s roles and how this affects their jewellery selections are arising.
Here are some questions I have been faced with in recent years…
I’m Finding It Hard To Orgasm…
I am 38. The last time myself and partner had sex I found it very hard to orgasm.
Since then we haven’t had sex in a long time until last night and the same thing happened.
We have been together 13 years and very much want each other emotionally and sexually, she turns me on and vice versa. I just don’t know what to do any more…
My Girlfriend Wants Anal Sex…
The title says it all – my girlfriend wants anal sex!
I have always thought of myself as a non boring sexual person, but I feel hesitant about this.
We’ve done it all kinds of other ways and positions, but I am not experienced at anal sex, and she is.
She assures me that I don’t have anything to worry about, that I should just stick it in and so forth and that she will show me the rest. I have told her not yet, but I’m putting her off and she knows it…